My Secret to Networking - Self Directed Investor Society

This is a quick interview with Carole Ellis of the Self Directed Investor Society in anticipation of the AAPL Annual Conference in Vegas coming up. I've placed a lot of emphasis on building relationships and being of service to others. Being of service means being helpful, adding value, and contributing to making other people's lives better. That can be as simple as a courteous smile or as big as making an important business connection for someone. Whatever it is, it stems from a place of authenticity, and a place of wanting to connect with others in a meaningful way. 

Carole did a great job of describing the way I think about "networking", which conceptually scares a lot of people, or turns them off. The way I think about it has allowed me to overcome the negative stigma that I once associated with the word. I hope that others will see the value in my perspective and use it to improve their personal and especially their professional careers!

Full transcript of the episode is available on the Self Directed Investor Society website here.

Magazine Feature & Vegas

I usually never look forward to a Las Vegas trip. It simply isn't 'my kind of town'. However, I'm looking forward to being there Nov 13 - 15 as part of the AAPL National Conference. As an industry expert in online real estate private lending, crowdfunding and fintech, I'll be on two panels talking about the best regulations for private lenders and brokers to know about, and also discussing how platforms operate.

I'm especially excited about this year's show because the organization so kindly featured me in the current issue of Private Lender magazine. I still feel like a newcomer to the real estate investment industry and I'm grateful to everyone I've met so far; their generosity, openness, curiosity and acumen has made me grown quite fond of this industry, and also of the folks at AAPL who promote ethical and fair lending practices. They put on a fabulous event with the best networking and deal making. This is an industry built on relationships, and AAPL is ensuring that those relationships develop and grow continuously.

Mindful Marketing - 3 Tips for Connecting With Your Customers

Recently I've been doing a lot of virtual presentations - webinars and podcasts - and while mostly these are about real estate crowdfunding and marketplace lending, on this one for Your Mark on the World, I spoke about Mindful Marketing and how we can use this philosophy to connect to customers. Here's a snippet from the interview, and podcast/webinar as well!

My Three Tips for Mindful Marketing

  1. Live and act with intent: Living and acting with intent is a powerful practice to be successful, and the same is true for marketing especially with social media. Rather than thinking of crossing off a to-do list, and automating everything for the purpose of being efficient, spend actual time even if that’s a few minutes, adding thought and intent to your posts. This will result in more engaging, authentic and felt posts, which in turn will bring better results than automating.
  2. Put yourself not only into your customer’s shoes, but also their online persona. The way people operate and behave online is different than how they act in real life. We are all multiple personas, so being in tune with this will help to achieve authentic connection and engagement. Act with laser focused intent – which in the online world can simply mean full attention– our full attention to the customer first, which may earn their full attention as a result.
  3. Create value for your audience. The greatest challenge and opportunity we have today is to create enough value for a potential customer, follower and audience member, to spend dedicated time on what we want to share or communicate. With no barriers to entry for vying for attention, it’s imperative that we focus on quality and spend the time and energy to be highly mindful and attentive–to needs, wants, trends, and desire for authentic connection.”

Why the Rocket Mortgage Superbowl Commercial Was a Disaster

One of the things we learned during this year's Super Bowl is that paying millions of dollars for an ad spot is evidently worth every penny -- if you want to tick people off and start a social brouhaha.

In its first-ever Super Bowl commercial, Detroit-based Quicken Loans created a 60-second TV spot showcasing Rocket Mortgage, its online mortgage platform. Quicken took advantage of the massive audience and executed a commercial with relatively good production value. They had to - it's the Super Bowl, you go big or you don't spend the dough. What Quicken didn't do, however, is think about the message their commercial portrayed. And that massive audience promptly proceeded to shout their outrage from our current, biggest cultural rooftop, Twitter. The claim? Rocket Mortgage's slick but slightly irrational exuberance would re-collapse the American housing market.

Peeved fans and sub-prime trauma survivors alike were joined by Elizabeth Spiers, the CEO of Everup, a digital wellness portal, who launched a counteroffensive on Twitter, who was then joined by Alexandra Mondalek of Time Money who decided Spiers' Tweet was an opening shot. Mondalek proceeded to decry Quicken's ad as the coming of the housing apocalypse and then tossed out that term: "housing bubble."

Many of us in the industry felt like we were watching an avalanche in real-time. The thread on Twitter rolled on, taking everyone down with it. Even Jacob Brogan, who writes about technology and culture for Slate, opened his coverage quoting April Siese at Bustle, who called Quicken "tone deaf" in her headline, and referred to "several financial experts," none of whom are actually connected to finance. Finally, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau jumped in with a vaguely "after-school special" tweet: "When it comes to #mortgages, take your time, ask questions and #knowbeforeyouowe."

As the dust has settled a bit, Quicken's offending commercial prompted me to reconsider issues raised by Adam Mackay's film, 'The Big Short' and how we at PoL design our marketing communications.

Critics accuse Quicken of ignoring the lessons of 2008 in the same way that 'The Big Short' rubbed salt in old wounds for many. Quicken could have very well aired their spot in 2005 when Americans were flush with the idea of owning as many homes as possible and practicing fiscal irresponsibility with greater flourish.

There's a lot missing from this commercial.

To my mind, Quicken's spot inadvertently insults the vanishing middle-class who haven't seen a rise in average pay since before Elway was actually playing. Quicken's "Super Bowl moment" comes at the cost of ignoring that wages for the middle-class are stagnant. I'd ask Quicken, "Where exactly do you expect these people, now that you have them jazzed, to find the down payment for that house? Does your product actually work for people with less-than perfect credit? Or for people caught in a cycle of contract work, with no easy W2 to upload?"

A Missed Opportunity

One might say Quicken took the quick hand-off and went straight up the middle. In doing so, they missed an opportunity. Quicken went for the long, down-field pass and missed the receiver. The result is that they appear to not have enough respect for the consumer to discuss pain points, value added services and building trust. Quicken should have demonstrated that technology can make a painful, ugly and frustrating process much easier, but instead went for Madison Avenue flash.

Quicken Loan's product, is one powered by technology, one meant to make life easier, to make the "I want to tear my hair out" experience of getting a mortgage simple. Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions a person will make in their lifetime. Financial technology and the transparency and ease online processing can bring to mortgage lending, is indisputable.

Being part of an industry that was created specifically for the creation of jobs, for the perpetuation of small businesses, for the new avenues to access capital -- and all of it happening online -- The JOBS Act was designed to stimulate job creation and some online finance companies have been operating under this new legislation to provide capital and credit to thousands of Americans. Credit - no matter how easy it could be to get on a phone - does not create jobs. And, if given too freely, it creates irresponsible demand for things that we cannot afford, much less need.

We should be talking about ethical practices, neighborhood revitalization, community revival and betterment through responsible lending. At Patch of Land, we talk about how the loans we make to real estate professionals, such as rehabbers, actually create jobs. We speak to lending as a service for hard working professionals, to transparency for all platform customers and for a secure, simple process.

For advertisers and brands alike, the Super Bowl commercials are as important, if not more than, the game itself. Brands build up their campaigns for months leading up to the day of the Big Game-- including broadcast, YouTube and social media assets. Video in particular is considered by some to be the most effective means of engaging with the fragmented attention span of today's consumer. It's also a quick way to communicate a brand's value proposition and message. As marketers, it's difficult not to get caught up in the hype.

However, it's our responsibility to think beyond the superficial engagement of just eyeballs and clicks more than ever, Quicken Loans president and CMO, Jay Farner felt the campaign was a success, stating, "The win was driving folks to the site." Frankly, that barometer for success just doesn't cut it. We should hold ourselves to a higher standard.

This post was originally published on The Huffington Post

Finesse Your Life in Orange County

I'm very honored to be a speaker, and to be called to hold space for the women who will come to this event in Orange County on November 7th! It means a lot to me, to be in a position where I can speak to other women, to share stories, encourage and empower a new sisterhood; a new community where women come together to help each other succeed! 

The Finesse Your Life Tour is the First Live Solutions Engine for Women.
In an age where social media has replaced live conversation and interaction, women crave that classic one-on-one conversation with other women that always seemed to provide the best interaction, comradery and sisterhood. Women are spending more time online, but  the reality is that people in general are become more isolated as they become more social via media.

The Finesse Your Life Tour ushers in the return of community and sisterhood. By creating a “live solutions engine”, we create a platform for girl talk on another level. Girl Talk with the purpose to encourage and inspire. This is achieved by attendees acting as ” live solution manuals” for one another. www.finesseyourlife.com.